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I’ve noticed a common theme lately among clients, neighbors and friends who are trying to focus on making healthier choices every day, but are somehow falling short of their own expectations: lack of focus. Perhaps the bar is set too high, or your time and energy are spread too thin? There could be many reasons for those days, or even weeks, when you just aren’t as motivated to do all of the healthy things you know you should.
My advice:
Check out these websites for inspirational ideas:
Hal Higdon – a great resource for marathon training from one of the most highly respected experts in the running world.
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What’s going to keep you going when it gets hard? (And, it will get hard.) Let’s take a peek at a scenario: you start an exercise program and stick with it long enough to elicit decent results. You’re feeling pretty good about your progress, hit your target date (insert: vacation, wedding, reunion, etc.), then WHAM! you fall off the wagon and sit along the side of the road watching your ride disappear into the distant horizon. Gotcha – didn’t I? Have you been there? Done that?
The trick to keeping yourself on track and focused on long-term weight management/optimal health goals is figuring out what motivates you. If what motivates you is a trip or vacation 6 to 8 weeks out — look out, you might be the one sitting on the side of the road soon. Why? Your motivation isn’t intrinsic – that is, it isn’t coming from within you. Rather, you are working toward a goal for external (and dare I mention, “short term”) reasons. When all is said and done, and your goal is reached, you’ll ditch your workout for your old routine of television and a bowl of Ben and Jerry’s. I guarantee it.
So how do you keep going? Do it for the right reasons: long-term health…because you want to feel great everyday for the rest of your life…because setting an example for your kids is, as Martha would say, “a good thing.” Oh, and because you can.
For more on this topic, check out: Breaking The Pattern: How Motivation Plays A Role In Getting Healthy