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I bet that you are your own worst critic. If you spent one week paying attention to your reactions, thoughts, comments, etc., many, or maybe most of them would be negative. It is challenging when we are bombarded day in and day out with negativity. I’ve made myself more aware of it now, because I want to think positive thoughts, but when I started to pay attention to the negative messages surrounding me everyday, then also the nasty little critical voice in my own head, I realized how much negativity I allowed into my life. I’m now much more guarded about what I watch, see, hear, pay attention to, and think. It has made a huge difference in my life, and it will in yours too.
Watch what you say. If you regularly hear yourself saying, “I’m not prepared…,” “I’m not good at…,” “I’ve never been able to…,” or “I always fail at…,” then you probably won’t get far if your health or fitness goal is to achieve something that requires these qualities. Verbalizing your weaknesses, fears, doubts and negativity, either internally or out loud, sets you up for certain disappointment. You are what you think about most of the time, so think positive thoughts. Tell yourself you can do it, even if you don’t yet believe it. This is the one time it is okay to pretend – “fake it until you make it.” Self-doubt and excuses have halted the progress of many would-be achievers. Don’t let that happen to you. Believe in yourself, keep working toward your fitness and health goals, and don’t stop trying until you get there.
Take a minute to record any negative thoughts you have on any given day, then put a positive spin on each one to turn it into a gem of an affirmation.
Here is an example:
Old self-talk: I don’t think I have enough experience to try the circuit-training class at the gym.
New self-talk: I can do anything I put my mind too. That class looks interesting, so I will try it just once and give it my best effort.
Give positive self-talk a shot. It certainly can’t hurt. And if you fail, so what, right? Think positive thoughts, and go for it!